Monday, 21 November 2016

Vaginismus Holiday

Hello lovely vaginismus friends!

I am temporarily living somewhere else... My husband is working away for two months, and in an unusual move, I have decided to join him.  We have a little flat in a brand new city, and, while he is at work, I am planning to use my time super productively.

I have plans to write more.  Make a website for my business.  Catch up on admin that I've been avoiding. Do more yoga.  That kinda thing.

But most of all, ladies, I am going to dilate dilate dilate!  I am always moaning on here about not having time to dilate, not having headspace to think about vaginismus, not having a minute to write new blog posts.

Well, suddenly, I am gifted with QUITE A LOT OF FREE TIME.  It's my vaginismus holiday.

So, it would be silly not to use it, right?

So expect many more updates here- hopefully filled with motivation and progress! I haven't used my dilators in a little while, so I am expecting the first attempts to be a bit difficult, but hoping that the new location, headspace and sense of calm that I have being away from the 'office' might be exactly what is needed to take some steps forward.

First, I need to get back to where I was (D3, second from biggest, going in with minimal pain).  I am pretty sure there's no chance that thing is going in there to begin with. But I'll persevere.  And then I need to move on.  D4 and beyond.  Imagine!

So, speak to you all soon and regularly I hope!

As always, email if you want a chat! I'm pleased to say quite a number of women have been in touch asking for vaginismus contacts in their area.  So if you've been holding back, dont be shy! There might be a new, supportive friend waiting for you in the wings! 

1 comment:

  1. Primary Vaginismus. 
    If you have it, then your body is NOT designed for sex. 

    It is God's way of telling a woman that she is DESTINED to become a nun or celibate. 
    So if you have it, go on and BECOME A NUN.
    Or be CELIBATE. 
    That's because it is God's way of controlling the global population. God created women with such sexual dysfunction to keep them away from sex and thus preventing conception. Unfortunately, most women don't realize it and would still go through days and weeks of therapy which is just time consuming. 

    Trying to remedy your condition is against God's will.
    God does NOT want you to have sex. 
    If your a woman, don't get married & don't have sex if your VAGINA wont let you.
    God had CLOSED the gates of your virginity.
    FACE IT! You have a NUN'S VAGINA.
    It is time to give up on men and become a NUN.

    VAGINISMUS may be the answer to overpopulation.
    God truly works in strange ways.
    I am now an enlightened man.