Hello lovely vaginismus friends!
I am temporarily living somewhere else... My husband is working away for two months, and in an unusual move, I have decided to join him. We have a little flat in a brand new city, and, while he is at work, I am planning to use my time super productively.
I have plans to write more. Make a website for my business. Catch up on admin that I've been avoiding. Do more yoga. That kinda thing.
But most of all, ladies, I am going to dilate dilate dilate! I am always moaning on here about not having time to dilate, not having headspace to think about vaginismus, not having a minute to write new blog posts.
Well, suddenly, I am gifted with QUITE A LOT OF FREE TIME. It's my vaginismus holiday.
So, it would be silly not to use it, right?
So expect many more updates here- hopefully filled with motivation and progress! I haven't used my dilators in a little while, so I am expecting the first attempts to be a bit difficult, but hoping that the new location, headspace and sense of calm that I have being away from the 'office' might be exactly what is needed to take some steps forward.
First, I need to get back to where I was (D3, second from biggest, going in with minimal pain). I am pretty sure there's no chance that thing is going in there to begin with. But I'll persevere. And then I need to move on. D4 and beyond. Imagine!
So, speak to you all soon and regularly I hope!
As always, email if you want a chat! I'm pleased to say quite a number of women have been in touch asking for vaginismus contacts in their area. So if you've been holding back, dont be shy! There might be a new, supportive friend waiting for you in the wings!